Recently, on a long flight home over the holidays, I discovered something that really got me thinking.  Sometimes very small, even unnoticed things we allow in our lives are covertly draining our energy and adding negative vibes to our existence. Squished into a tiny window seat on the plane and making the best of it, I had decided to go through and delete numbers and addresses from my phone that I knew weren’t good anymore.   People that had moved, changed phone numbers, or whatever.  I was sure there were at least a handful of them in there. What I found surprised and even startled me a bit.  There were tons…